Expressing oneself is an introduction of your true self to the outside world. Never feel afraid of it. When you have the freedom of expression, why not use it to your advantage.
Why is expressing important?
- In today’s world full of lies and betrayals, it is quite difficult to stop feeling negative. But you quickly need to understand that feeling negative is not a problem. The problem begins when you retain that negativity within you and do not express it out. Always remember, expressing is your deliberate attempt to convert the negativity felt into positivity.
- A transparency needs to be maintained between your inner and outer self. Expressing yourself out acts as a mirror between the two. It ensures that whatever you feel from inside is presented outside. It allows you to reveal your true feelings(positive as well as negative) to the outside world. Therefore, there is no retention of negative feelings inside you to attract other negative energies.
- You always ride high on your self-confidence via expressing. It is because when you express your true self to others, it also means that you value and respect your ideas, thoughts, and beliefs. Yes, it is a sign that you respect yourself.
When you don’t express yourself, you feel negative because you did not flush out the negativity via expressing. Subsequently, your mind holds others responsible for own negativity. But you know what, there is no one else to blame for your negativity except oneself.
On the other hand, when you express, you expose yourself in front of others. You reveal your true identity to others. In the process, people might get hurt. Many people might not like you at that time. You may be called rude, offensive, and aggressive or might be misunderstood.
However, believe me, the ones who deserve to be in your life will understand you gradually. They will accept you the way you are. Those people could be less in number but they will be the ones whom you will find every time by your side you need them. Over and above all, at least you will not be lying to yourself.
Time for some Happy Realizations:
Friends, you cannot hide your true self for too long from others. So, it is always better to reveal yourself to others by yourself than to get exposed by them. Remember, expressing yourself to others not only exposes you in front of others but also exposes others in front of you. It breaks that awkwardness and uneasiness which enables you to see the real side of others.
Summon up that silence is also a form of expression. Hiding your feelings and emotions inside can only help you at that very moment, but in the long run, it proves to be disastrous.
Always remember, you are being judged for everything you do. Make sure that you get judged for what you are.Therefore, EXPRESS, EXPOSE and EXPLORE yourself. BREAK FREE…
Never wait for the right moment to express yourself because NOW is the right moment to express yourself. Sometimes it may be difficult but remember, if you are not expressing yourself now, the difficulty level to express will keep on increasing with increasing time. When you express later, it hampers the quality of expression and you might also be misunderstood and wrongly interpreted.
Final important words, You cannot please everyone, at least take the responsibility of pleasing your own-self.